I spent years trying to decide if I wanted kids – torn between two different versions of my life. I thought the problem was fear, timing, or practical concerns. But that was only part of it. I was missing something fundamental.

Here’s what you need to know if you’re a man thinking about having kids: you probably will regret becoming a dad. But there’s a catch: that doesn’t necessarily mean it’s the wrong decision.

I was honoured to appear recently on a new podcast called Connecting Beyond Apps and AI, hosted by my old friend Alexander Goldman.

If your partner wants kids and you’re not sure, you’re probably wondering what that means for the future of your relationship and your choice about children.

Recently, someone came to do some work on my house. As it was the school holidays, he’d brought what I thought was his teenage son with him. Turns out, it was his grandson.